IS IT REALLY CHEATING IF HE’S NEGLECTING YOU?

(Spoiler: No, It’s Self-Care.)

Let’s get real, ladies.

There’s nothing quite as frustrating as lying in bed next to your partner, your body humming with desire, and realizing… he’s got the libido of a houseplant these days. You try everything—that sexy new lingerie, subtle touches under the dinner table, maybe even directly telling him you’re craving some intimate connection—and still, nada. Zilch. Just him, snoring away like a tranquilized walrus while your poor yoni is left parched in the desert of neglect. Meanwhile we live in a society inundated with false depictions of the red-hot desirous husband whose icy wife won’t respond to his many overtures for sexual attention from her. Meanwhile, my calendar is filled with red-hot women tired of waiting for sexual attention from her man.

Yet here you are, wondering…

“Would it really be so wrong to get my needs met elsewhere?”

Buckle up, ladies. This blog post is your permission slip—and a juicy invitation—to stop waiting for the sexual awakening that may never come from your partner, and to reclaim your divine feminine power through the magic of a yoni massage.

Is It Cheating If He’s Neglecting You? Short answer: Nope. Absolutely not.

Long answer: If your partner has checked out sexually and isn’t making an effort to fulfill your needs despite honest conversations, you’re not "cheating" by tending to yourself. You’re healing. You’re nourishing. You’re honoring your birthright to pleasure and connection.

Ladies, intimacy is more than just sex—it’s energy, it’s self-worth, it’s mental health. Denying yourself touch, affection, and erotic release isn’t noble—it’s torture.

And let’s be honest:

He’s not worried about your needs. Why should you sacrifice yourself for someone who won’t even lift a finger—literally?

Here’s Why You Deserve to Scratch That Intimate Itch:

1. Because Your Mental Health Matters

A sexually neglected woman isn’t just dealing with a lack of orgasms (though, yes, those are essential). She’s dealing with anxiety, tension, frustration, and a sense of disconnection from herself.

Studies show regular sexual release reduces stress, boosts mood, improves sleep, and even lowers blood pressure. It’s basically yoga—but horizontal and a hell of a lot more fun.

2. Because You’re a Sensual Being

Your body was designed for pleasure. The clitoris alone has over 8,000 nerve endings—why would the universe bless you with such divine hardware if you weren’t meant to use it?

A yoni massage doesn’t just give you release—it awakens your sensuality, reconnects you to your femininity, and helps you experience the kind of toe-curling, heart-opening bliss you deserve.

3. Because Self-Preservation Isn’t Betrayal

Let’s get this straight: you’re not sneaking around in some shady affair here. You’re seeking professional, therapeutic bodywork designed to unlock your pleasure pathways, release energetic blocks, and restore your connection to yourself.

You wouldn’t feel guilty for booking a massage for your sore back, right? Well, your yoni has been carrying years of tension, emotional baggage, and unmet desires. It’s time she got the TLC she’s been begging for.

4. Because Waiting for Him Could Take Forever

Here’s a little secret: most women who finally book a yoni massage admit they waited way too long.

They kept hoping this month would be different. That maybe their partner would suddenly become Don Juan in the bedroom after watching a TikTok about tantra.

Spoiler: He won’t.

5. Because You’re Not Trying to Replace Him

By booking a service with me, you are not betraying your husband or partner with a potential new man to take his place. Like how he likes to take his car for a full service with that mechanic who he knows he can trust and rely upon to get his vehicle running great again— you are taking your precious yoni for some intimate fine-tuning and attention certain to leave her purring and ready for him (should he ever decide he’s interested). Betrayal is you reaching outside of your marriage or relationship for the possibility of a better partner. By getting a yoni massage, you are simply keeping your yoni happy in a safe environment with a person who is not a threat to your safety, marriage or relationship.

In the meantime, don’t wait for someone else to hand you the keys to your kingdom. Crown yourself, queen.

💦 Ready to Reclaim Your Pleasure?

Listen, there’s no shame in admitting that your needs aren’t being met—and even less shame in doing something delicious about it. Booking a yoni massage isn’t about betrayal—it’s about liberation.

If your partner has gone MIA in the bedroom, it’s time to take matters into your own hands… or better yet, mine.

As NYC’s most trusted, discreet, and skilled yoni massage practitioner, I specialize in helping women like you unlock their sensual energy, reconnect with their bodies, and experience mind-blowing levels of pleasure in a safe, respectful space.

Your yoni has been patient long enough.

Book your session now, and let’s remind her what she’s been missing.

Because neglect isn’t sexy—but self-care sure as hell is!

YoniMaster Rick